Mindset

All too often, people fall short of their goals.  Why is that?  Perhaps you’ve wondered this many times before, regarding yourself and your teammates.  While there certainly is no single answer that explains the disappointing outcome every time, there is one commonality that all these people share.  Are you curious what that is?

Without exception, everyone who consistently falls short of their goal lacks a crystal clear vision.  The importance of clarity of your vision cannot possibly be overstated.  It is an absolutely essential foundational piece of the success puzzle — in business and in life, actually.  If you don’t know EXACTLY where you are going, how could you possibly reach the goal?  Or, stated another way, if you don’t EXACTLY know what the goal is (in very clear, specific terms), it is impossible for you to reach this elusive state of existence.

When stated this way, you likely can easily agree – right?  As people often say, if you are  in New York and you want to ‘Go West’, and that is as clear as your goal is — How exactly will you measure your success?  Is success defined as reaching Los Angeles?  Or Seattle?  Or Denver?  Or Chicago?  Or New Jersey?  Each of these cities is west of New York, but obviously each destination is very unique and represents a different journey.  If you don’t have a crystal clear vision of your end goal, you cannot possibly get there.  Chances are, in fact, you won’t even get anywhere near your goal!
Following this journey metaphor a bit deeper, if you began your trip without a map, what are the chances you’ll get to any of your desired destinations?  Certainly, we all know that having a map or a blueprint is something very critical to progress.  Yet, I challenge you further — if you don’t know exactly what your end goal or vision is, how can you create an accurate map?

Just think about and ponder that question …. For, all too many people jump right over this and get ‘busy’, filling their days with activity.  Meaningless, or non-strategic activity will only create chaos, fatigue, and frustration.  Instead, I’d like to see you take that invaluable action of clarifying your vision, setting a firm foundation, then creating a sound strategy to get there.

Once you have taken the steps to thoughtfully reflect on your vision, I encourage you to dig even deeper.  Get as detailed as you can.  While this may seem a bit silly to you at first, believe me, the exercise is invaluable.  You are actually training your subconscious to see and feel these results.  By doing this, there will be a ‘pull’ force that is created, which pulls you toward the desired goals.  This strategy is far, far superior to a ‘push’ force, where you are consistently pushing yourself toward some vague direction, without making much progress.

One last note on the importance and necessity of achieving a crystal clear vision… It is not something that you do just once, set aside, and rarely review.  Far from it!  Rather, this is an ongoing process.  As you grow and experience the bumps and challenges of your business life, you will find the need to continually refer to your vision.  In fact, you will find yourself sharpening the vision as you gain new insights and knowledge.  You will likely realize some intermediate steps that need to be taken, that were completely out of your knowledge or awareness before.  When that happens, fill in the detail.  As you grow your vision, your business and the value you bring to the world will also grow.

So, now get on it — Create that crystal clear vision and continue to sharpen the focus.  Doing this faithfully will deliver amazing results to you — Guaranteed!

If you are like most people who aspire to build a successful home-business, you likely have been exposed to a fair amount of leadership training.  Perhaps you’ve attended conferences, read books, participated in workshops even.  We all know the importance of building leadership qualities in ourselves.  That’s what successful business leaders do, right?

Yes, leadership training is very important.  Continually improving and implementing what you have learned is the critical often-missing component.  Don’t fall into the trap of reading books and attending seminars without immediately implementing.  Many of the leadership strategies and tools are based upon a solid leadership mindset.  If you can daily improve your leadership mindset, the implementation and development of the strategies and tools will follow.

While there are a wide variety of leadership trainings available, I’ve found that a fair number of them miss one critical aspect of leadership. One of the essential mindset principles that gets overlooked in leadership training is that of cultivating gratitude.  Gratitude can be an extremely powerful tool, once understood, embraced, and fully developed.

How is gratitude a leadership tool?  Well, gratitude is perhaps one of the most under-rated tools for leadership, team-mobilization, productivity increases, as well as personal development.  Gratitude can be actually utilized in several different fashions, creating vastly different results.  Let’s dive into those.

First, we can address utilizing gratitude for you personally.  If you can cultivate a spirit and feeling of gratitude for all that you have, all that you experience in a day, then you will be creating a powerful shift in yourself.  Not only will your mood lift, but you will also find that your productivity increases, new opportunities seem to arise out of thin air, and your relationships improve.  Yes, all of this can truly happen when you develop a spirit of gratefulness for all that is in your life.  As you express gratitude for all that you have, you naturally begin to develop a higher sense of self-worth.  For, in appreciating yourself (ie. feeling gratitude for the gifts and talents you may have), you are allowing yourself to be a more authentic version of you.  As you develop in this self-appreciation, and allow the ‘real you’ to be evident, this dramatically propels you along your personal development path.  Research has demonstrated over and over that those who are most successful in business are those who are being their authentic self.  It is only when we try to mimic someone else, by following a blueprint that is right for someone else and not us, that we falter.  If you can be grateful for your uniqueness, then and only then can you begin to really shine.  I guarantee you that others will notice this in you and be attracted to it!

Next, if you can cultivate a genuine spirit of gratitude for your clients and prospect, you will significantly alter any and all future business outcomes.  Too often in today’s fast society, people don’t ‘take the time’ to express gratitude.  If you do sincerely offer this, people take immediate note.  Whether conscious or not, they will desire to be around you more — for, everyone at their essence craves some form of praise.  If you can genuinely offer this, in whatever way is appropriate for that moment, you set a positive tone for anything that may follow.  Gratitude is simply a gift you give to others, that never fails to give back to the original giver.

Lastly, expressing gratitude for whatever business success you already have is important.  Even if you are just starting out and don’t feel that you have any success at all, for certain there are components that you can be grateful for.  Reflect on what they are, and express gratitude.  If you can make this a daily habit, or even several times a day, I guarantee your entire business will change.  It is a slow process often (not always, though!), yet it never, ever fails.  Give it a go — and I am certain your life and business will benefit!

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The 4 Critical Steps To Success

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