March 2012

Certainly, as you well know, building and growing a successful home-based business requires an incredible amount of skill, focus, strategy and attention.  There are organizational skills, leadership skills, sales skills, business skills, relationship skills, and so much more that need to be continually developed and sharpened. With so needs and requirements for continued growth, you and your team sometime can get overwhelmed beyond the ability to be effective.

This is where you, as the leader, must step in.  Surely, we are all human, and overwhelm is a natural state that can occur.  However, as you grow in your own personal development, and certainly as you grow as a leader, you can recognize this overwhelm for what it is and immediately begin to divert the power it can have over you.

Overwhelm, just like other forms of stress, will naturally happen.  However, how you choose to respond to this overwhelm is precisely what will determine if you are a successful leader or a mediocre leader.  Similarly, it also defines whether you will grow a successful business, or one that produces minimal or average results.  The way you respond to overwhelm, the way you respond to stress in general, can have a profound impact on your productivity, your state of mind, and your ability to lead your team.

In a previous post, I talked about the power of resilience.  If you missed that, I encourage you to search that term on my blog and read that article.  Resilience is precisely the quality that will help you overcome your overwhelm.  It can indeed take that overwhelming and negative energy and transform it into a positive force to move yourself and your team forward.

Possessing the ability to coral and harness this energy, transforming it into a positive force, can be an incredible power.  In fact, this power — often referred to as Inspiration — can be an impactful motivating force for your team.  For, if you can recall back to your early days of beginning your business, there are many times when overwhelm can kick in.  In fact, overwhelm is one of the top reasons why new business-builders fail.  If you, as their leader, can step in and provide them inspiration and guidance, you will significantly help them.  You will earn respect and they will learn to model you for their growing team.
As you know, building a successful network and home-based business is all about creating and building strong relationships.  As you continually learn and grow, you can lead your team to also learn and grow.  The ability to build your business is directly related to the value you bring to the table.  Both your customers and teammates are drawn to you, and stay with you, because of this value delivery.  If you can inspire them, and continue to offer more and more value, they will remain loyal to you.

Ultimately, as your inspiration flows regularly to them, and they also develop the skills and abilities to generate their own inspiration, they will be well on their way to develop and lead their own team.  That is the ultimate goal.  Inspiration has a wonderful way of spreading virally.  And, what a wonderfully positive virus to spread around!

This article is part strategy, part productivity, and part self-reflection.  For, all three components are truly necessary if you plan to create a super successful, satisfying business.  Taken at a very basic level — do you know what you want to do?  You may answer — “Sure, I want to be a successful home business owner, a well-respected leader, and someone who spreads a valuable service globally.”  Or, you may have some other similar answer.  In any case, that is a high level answer to ‘What do you want to do?’

On a more granular level, do you really know what you need to do to reach that goal?  This is where things can get a bit trickier.  Having the end goal in mind is critical, yet knowing the steps to get there is equally important.  For many people, this is their downfall.  Without a clear understanding of the milestones to reach your big goal, how can you possibly expect to achieve it?  You need a map.  A blueprint.  A clear strategy.

Many mentors advocate creating a ‘To Do’ list each day.  In fact, many recommend creating it the evening before, so that you have a clear idea of your day’s structure before it begins.  Surely David Allen’s, Getting Things Done can be considered the bible for such a philosophy.  There’s no doubt that such strategies can incredibly increase your productivity.
However, there are many others who feel this can fill your days with activity, while you may be missing the ‘big picture’.  I can certainly see how this can happen.  I caution you to not fall into this trip.  Don’t get all caught up in filling your days with activity, thereby fooling yourself that you’re being productive.  Rather than measure yourself by activities accomplished, it is far more effective to measure yourself by results attained. For, that is really what matters.

Another strategy that some experts promote is the concept of creating a “Not To Do” list.  When you first hear this, you may think – “How foolish!”  For, I bet you believe in the universal concept of ‘what you focus on expands’, right?  Well, I can understand that, since that was my initial reaction also.  However, once you dig a bit deeper, you’ll begin to understand the wisdom here.  This is not a daily ‘Not To Do’ list.  Rather, it is one you create yearly, perhaps monthly, possibly weekly.  It is simply a list you write when you are reflecting on  your personal behavior.  Surely, you have some habits, tendencies, thoughts, or behaviors that don’t serve you optimally?  It can be helpful to become aware and reflect upon what those precisely are.  If you actually write this down, it can become a powerful tool to help loosen the grip of these not-so-useful behaviors.

So, what could possibly be on your Not To Do list?  Here are some examples from others:  don’t skip my morning success ritual, don’t snack after 7:30 PM, don’t go all morning without drinking water, don’t get sucked into the negative office gossip, don’t check my email more than X times a day, etc… You get the idea.  Creating such a list can help you sharpen your focus and keep your true attention on exactly what it is you want to achieve.

By incorporating these ideas and concepts into your daily routine, you position yourself more strategically to truly accomplish your goals.  By focusing on daily achievement, followed by weekly achievement, you can indeed make steady progress.  Knowing where you are going, and what specific milestones or bridges you need to pass, is a critical key to success of many people before you.  Happy journeying!

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